August 31, 2021 at 1:05 pm #385520
<p style=”text-align: left;”>You think it’s only the thoughts that are making me feel like that right?</p>August 31, 2021 at 1:22 pm #385521anitaParticipant
Yes, I do, but I think that you will keep asking me the same question, or the same questions over and over again because you are obsessed with the topic of your sexual orientation. Obsessions are never satisfied with answers. Therefore, I will not reply to you further. I wish you well, Bella.
anitaAugust 31, 2021 at 1:32 pm #385522
Thank you so much for your help! Sorry for being annoying and thank you again very much!September 2, 2021 at 9:13 am #385564OwenParticipant
Oh my gosh, I wish I found this way sooner. I have really bad anxiety so when I read through all of these posts it was a huge relief. I have never really been through a long term anxiety like this before but about a month ago, my friend (who’s a guy —> my best friend” made a “gay”/bromance joke about me and for some reason my mind started to spiral and I felt so anxious all the time about my sexuality. I am also in a long distance relationship and I felt like it definitely was affecting things. For me, when I get nervous, I talk to everyone and it was really hard for once for me to talk about this. I ended up talking to my therapist about this and while that helped it definitely didn’t do near the help that this thread has helped me with. The questions of “am I gay” and “am I bi” are kind of disturbing sometimes to think about (even for someone who is totally supportive of LGBTQ+ People). Just know that you are not a line in this process. Thank you so much tiny Buddha, you just saved me from a lot of anxiety that I didn’t want.September 2, 2021 at 9:30 am #385590anitaParticipant
As one of the participants in this thread I want to say: you are welcome and thank you for expressing your appreciation!
anitaSeptember 3, 2021 at 3:21 am #385618
I have contacted you before about my problem and your help calmed me somehow, and the thought of not being the only one going through this made me feel way better. Thank you once again! Although I do feel still very bad and strange. What hurts me the most is that when I’m with my boyfriend I think of that a lot and I think that I like women and that I don’t like him and I’m not attracted to him anymore and even when I do something with my boyfriend I think that a woman can do that and what would it feel like if a woman did it and that doing something with him is okay I’m not dying over it and that i don’t care if I lose him, but when I listen to songs that I have to do with him I cry. I don’t want to think of any of this. Before this problem started I didn’t think of any of this. I thought it was like what would it feel like if a woman did it but that’s it nothing else it didn’t phased me like it does now and it feels very bad I just want it gone. Do you have any idea why do I keep thinking of this and why it is still bothering me like that?
Have a great day!September 3, 2021 at 4:02 am #385619
Also what I wanted to say is that after all this started it just feels like I just want to admit that I am bi and just get done with it. And before there were times where I thought something that sure happening between me and a woman and I felt kind of weird and now it feels like I like it and I want it. And I just want that gone.