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  • #385503
    SPDM
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    Dear Anita,

    well I think mostly about the excessive overthinking and that the problem is not about my sexual orientation but because of my overthinking I guess? But I don’t know why it doesn’t leave and even though sometimes I feel better I just have this constant feeling that I like women and that’s it and I don’t what to do to stop it

    #385504
    anita
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    Dear Bella:

    the excessive overthinking“- (1) did you suffer from excessive overthinking in regard to other topics, in the past, and (2)  did you ever see a doctor or a therapist in regard to your excessive overthinking?

    anita

    #385505
    SPDM
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    no I have never seen a doctor or a therapist for my ever thinking I know that it destroys me from the inside out but I don’t wanna get over it on my own I want to try at least. The problem is that sometimes I call myself from these thoughts and when I think of my boyfriend I feel bad and he makes me feel like I’m not attracted to him anymore and these thoughts come back and what does that could mean? Does that mean I am bi? I don’t want at all to ruin my relationship…

    #385506
    SPDM
    Participant

    Or worse does that mean that I’m not attracted to men anymore? Even though I think of us doing something and I feel something then comes what I presented you before…

    #385507
    SPDM
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    On the first message I wanted to say that I feel bad and this makes me feel like I’m not attracted to him anymore and that I like women, I wrote it wrong, I’m sorry. Just like I said I just want that to go away I don’t want you to mean something and I want everything to go back to normal…Sorry for annoying you…

    #385508
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Bella:

    Sorry for annoying you“- you figure that you are annoying me because you keep asking the same questions, don’t you, asking other people the same questions over and over again and some of those people get annoyed with you?

    anita

    #385510
    SPDM
    Participant

    Hello Anita,

    I don’t know but I don’t to put pressure on you…Besides that, I just want all of these thoughts gone…Because it ruins my relationship with my boyfriend…Because I think that I’m not attracted to him anymore because of all that and I never thought of that before even when these thoughts occurred again…I don’t know what to do…

    #385511
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Bella:

    it ruins my relationship with my boyfriend… I don’t know what to do“-

    – I suggest that you make an appointment with your family doctor, if you have one, or a medical doctor otherwise, and describe to the doctor your current excessive overthinking (about your sexual orientation), and your history with excessive thinking (on other topics).

    anita

    #385512
    SPDM
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    so just like the others, you think is anxiety and overthinking not about my sexual orientation right?

    #385513
    SPDM
    Participant

    Because I really don’t want it to be that I am bi…

    #385514
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Bella:

    Yes, I think that you are suffering from anxiety and overthinking. It would be so good for you if you calmed down and slowed down your thinking.

    anita

    #385515
    SPDM
    Participant

    I just read though that if I was bi or lesbian the thought of being with someone would not don’t disgust me. Personally it doesn’t, I just have never done it and I don’t know if I could at the end. I’ve had several dreams of me doing it and had no problem I woke up thinking that oh then I have no problem and the thoughts were coming back again stronger but as a girl said I don’t want to be with them I want to be them, you know what I mean… I just don’t want to be bi or anything but I don’t know why that’s happening and why every time I think of my boyfriend even though I love him and I don’t wanna lose him the thoughts come back and I feel like I’m not attracted to him anymore and to men in general just to women even though I’ve never done something? Does that mean I’m bi? Because I don’t want too…

    #385517
    SPDM
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    I just read though that if I was bi or lesbian the thought of being with someone would not don’t disgust me. Personally it doesn’t, I just have never done it and I don’t know if I could at the end. I’ve had several dreams of me doing it and had no problem I woke up thinking that oh then I have no problem and the thoughts were coming back again stronger but as a girl said I don’t want to be with them I want to be them, you know what I mean… I just don’t want to be bi or anything but I don’t know why that’s happening and why every time I think of my boyfriend even though I love him and I don’t wanna lose him the thoughts come back and I feel like I’m not attracted to him anymore and to men in general just to women even though I’ve never done something? Does that mean I’m bi? Because I don’t want too…

    #385518
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Bella:

    I understand that you don’t want to be bisexual and that the thought bothers you a lot. I think that it will be helpful to you to (1) no longer watch pornography and (2) see a medical doctor as I suggested earlier.

    I wish you well.

    anita

    #385519
    SPDM
    Participant

    Dear Anita,

    So you don’t think I’m bi or anything right?

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