Hi Lucy,

Everyone has a purpose !

You are going through a period of life when we feel lost and directionless – it happens around middle age to most people and earlier to some but it is only a phase and will pass.

It is the Universe’s way of getting us to rethink/change our direction in life. You need to go within and figure that out.

May GOD’s grace guide you !

Hi Suze,

There is nothing wrong with having kids late in life.

However, to be blunt, kids are a lot of work and you have other major issues including depression, addictions, and you not being sure if you love your bf.

Please consider this scenario for a minute: You are a couple years into the future and you have a baby. Unfortunately, you have developed Post Partum Depression and your husband/bf cannot handle the pressure and is leaving you. Would you have the resources to cope under such circumstances? If the answer is Yes, go ahead and have the baby. If not, please DON’T !

Sorry to play devil’s advocate but this is a real life scenario that occurs often and ends up devastating lives.

GOD Bless !

Hi Sharron,

Sometimes, events that happened early on in our lives continue to haunt us.

Even though it is difficult, you cannot give those bad events power to control your future !

If you believe in Karma, those who do wrong always pay for it – in this life or beyond.

If not, here is Romans 12:19:
“Avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, said the Lord”

I hope you find peace and move forward.

GOD Bless !

Hi CM,

Most times, bad events come out of the blue and surprise us !

To add to the suggestions above:

1) Meditation can be difficult when the mind is not calm – so try any form of physical activity. Walking outdoors works best for me. Even 15-20 minutes a day can make a world of difference in reducing anxiety/depression and help clear your mind.

2) Listen to this one song by Sarah Brightman called ‘Moment of Peace’ – it brings me peace in turbulent times. Here is the youtube link:

GOD Bless !

Hi Hayley,

I am sorry you are going through tough times at such a young age. You are a kind soul and deserve better !

I pray your angels help you forward and suggest 2 things:

1) Please try some form of physical activity to clear your mind – walking outdoors works best for me. Even 15-20 minutes a day will help in reducing depression/anxiety. Clearing your mind will bring forth options for positive steps in your life.

Please keep looking forward – you have your entire life ahead of you and I promise you it will get better if you put in the effort !

2) Listen to this one song by Josh Groban – it helped me and hope it helps you too! Here is the Youtube link:

GOD Bless !

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Hi A,

In my opinion, the root cause of Agoraphobia is either a distrust of other people or a lack of trust/confidence in oneself.

Please go within and find out which one is more dominant in your case. Once you do, there are resources on this website and others that you can use.

Just do me 2 small favors:

1) DO NOT give up on yourself ! Life can be hard but ‘Darkness always gives way to Light’ – it may take longer than we thought but it always does !

2) Listen to this one song by Seal – it helped me in tough times and hope it does for you too !. Here is the Youtube link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TXsAtWbEoRU

GOD Bless !

Julie’s response tells you there are no set paths or guarantees in life – anything can happen at any time – good or bad !

So, stop comparing yourself to others – some of us were meant to be different.

Keep doing your best and trust in a Higher power.

I pray angels will light your way forward.

God bless !