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October 5, 2013 at 11:12 am #43243
Most of you told that drink more water it is very true apart from that i have some healthy habits as per “Ayurvedas”of indian culture.
1)Drink one glass water without brush your teeth as you wake up at morning it will be difficult for some days but it help in Prevention of Constipation Problem.
2)Take 5-6 Leaves Of “TULSI(Ocimum santcum)” plant daily at morning there are so many benifits of tulsi i mentione some of them below
#Boosts the immune system.
#Possesses anti-diabetic properties.
#Protects your eyes against ocular diseases such as cataract, macular degeneration, glaucoma and opthalmia.
#A very good home remedy for respiratory and lung diseases such as asthma and bronchitis.
#Provides easy oral and dental care due to its antibacterial properties.
#A good source of antioxidants which check the development of free radicals.
#Very effective insect repellent with larvicidal properties against several insects.
And “TULSI” leaves has very stringent test and if you do not like it’s leaves to swallow then you can add it’s leaves in “TEA”.
3)Before i go to bed at night it’s my habit to take a deep breath at slow speed for half an hour this help me to deep sleep and also wash all unncessary thoughts jumping in mind.we can feel Piece.This also help in strengthen our Lungs too.
DHARMESH RADADIYA.October 1, 2013 at 10:57 pm #43096
Nice to hear from you that you got a new job and getting better and better day by day.
You are absolutely right that problems stucks to us temporary and i think if you use it perfectly and in different way then your life will be brighten forvever.
Everybody inspired from you that how you tackle that situation and come out from that i think if you learn something from that just write down it as blog and lots of people will be benifited by that blog and you will be appreciated.B’coz its not too late to write it as you just came out from that so those ideas about how to tackle that difficult time still in your mind so i think you should have to give speed to your pen and start writing..
Dharmesh Radadiya.October 1, 2013 at 10:45 pm #43095
Look Sometimes we do not have any intention to make mistakes but it happens automatically or people look it with different vision so do not cry and dont worry about it bcoz may be something better waiting for you.And Sometimes i feel that God let us to make mistakes so that we can be out of it and look for other oppurtonties as well .
And mistaks will no more with you if you use it effectively and this will be turning point of your life so don’t think about whtever happened think about what will happen k forget those all things.
I have seen one case of my Colleague same as you he was fired from job,he cried a lot,blamed his self for those all but he didnt know that it was his turning pint of life.And now you can’t believe He is Heading a Department from where he was fired before 5 years .so don’t worry about that pls i request you to stop crying and start wondering around you for something better than it .
Dharmesh Radadiya.September 25, 2013 at 8:11 pm #42804
I gained worst feeling to my self after reading your problem it’s very difficult to pass from these all situation.But we can not judge any person perfectly
at starting everybody is honest by heart,love us but after some time and mainly during problem real examination of anybody come in notice that what he/she behave with us at that time.
And i think you suffered a lot may be even i have seen your first case of such type but do not worry as said by edlin as time moves you will be better do not think about your past and if your daughter is mature to understand everything give her spiritual and religious guidance this will help her to come out from that.
And do not talk about those all infront of her b’coz if she trying to forget that that will again make her to think about tht and diverts her mind.
And i am also agree with Edlin that write down your bad past and burn it or throw it it will lifted beggage of your past from your life.
Before one year ago i do not have any my own identification but suddenly turning point came to my life and i changed now totally it is only possible when you take your Bad passt with good feeling and in positive way.
Enjoy you life with your new man if he know everythign about you then i think “He is God” for you b’coz even he help you to come out from your past so concentrate on him and give love to him.According to me “He is god for you come to your doorstep for your love” Now it’s up to you what you have to do>
Dharmesh Radadiya.September 24, 2013 at 8:59 pm #42732
I think the way you are thinking will harm you if you continue to think,look dear friend you told that i always failed to maintain relationship.lost job everytime.
This make us nervous all the time?But if you going to start a new relation with anybody dont carry fear that this relationship will also break in future.
this stops you to behave freely with that person and stop ur original behaviour with some one.And you will fail to expose your original self to some one.
I also practicing maditation daily but it is very hard to stop unwanted thoughts in mind during meditation but Before you start your meditation promise your self that u will not think about anyhting during meditation.And someone did bad with you and you are still suffering from it then forgive them all by heart this will help you to decrease intensity of your pain.
Imagine your self as having so many friends and they all are very happy with you,your behaviour,your habits.And if you are working currently some where
Notice those all people who are with you and also try to find that what they expect from you if you will find it you will no far from Happiness.
I Pray to god they will help you to find out your way.
Dharmesh Radadiya.September 24, 2013 at 8:34 pm #42731
Sometime in our life we desiring for something that is around us but we cant see them because do not concentrate them,
so my suggestion is just to concentrate the things around you and you have you will definately have your answer through your self.
And i have also experienced that if u want something and you always desiring that “I want this” “I want this” but if you desiring it with a doubt in mind that Perhaps what happen if i failed to achieve it? this is a very dangerous thing which diverts you from your goals and make you nervous.
If you really want something then do not dreaming about losing it,Dream about that you have already it,this will give you happiness and also let you to be more concentrate about how to achieve it?
There is a Saying that “If you love something With Complete true Desire,Entire Universe will help you to achieve it”.
I am from india and I do not have very good command of Lenguage as Matt ,and Onder may be you understand my words and will help you little bit.
Your Well Wisher.
Dharmesh Radadiya.September 24, 2013 at 12:07 pm #42705
Thanks a lot for respecting my suggestion and dear friend i am very proud of you that you take my suggestion positively and you left your exs home and now you are with your family member they will definately help you to come out from this and pls never cry about these all.Just focus on your goal and if you achieve your goal luck will on your feet.
I can say these all bocz i have also very hard past but i cnt explain you. Later i came to know that there are so many people here to help us out of it.but i didnt know that
i learned from my self and now i am very happy with my life.
Give me your e-mail id i will share with you about my life,what i had face in my life and wht i did to solve that all.
Dharmesh Radadiya.September 23, 2013 at 11:30 pm #42684
Very serious problem you are suffering from right now according to me stop this relationship b’coz tht guy doesnt worry about you then why you worried about him.and if you will continue this relationship you will harm your self and it is very sad that you left your parents how can you did tht?How can you leave that paersons who let you see this wonderful world ,how can you leave your mother who bear lots of pain and gave birth to you,how can you forget your father who hold your hand in every situation and let you understand everything in world?it’s very bad that for that your love only you leave your home and your paretns.
Just tell me one thing wht happen if your parents didnt accept you when you born?
Had you any Identification of your self ans is definately NO!!!!!
Wht happen if your parents left you when you borned?Can you ever felt the love of your mother-father NO!!!
And one more thing when your parents came to you to get you back to home?why you denied them ?Have you ans of that.
you gave that stranger guy three chance then Why u didnt give “ONLY ONE CHANCE TO YOUR PARENTS”.
Look Chidrens are always worlds best persons in parents eyes when u borned your parents dreamed a lot for you that our daughter will be…etc
wht you did? Had they ever think that our daughter will let us to see these days?NO!!!! b’coz parents are the only persons who can never think any bad for us.
I doesn’t mean that love is curse but i meant to say everybody have rights to love the person to whom they choose for life but apart form that look at your family also what they want for you.
Before you left your home if you have asked your parents for help the will definately helped you .
Only one suggestion for you “Look to your Parents still there are so many Dreams for You in your Parents Eyes”
Go back to your home and now it’s your time to give love to your family b’coz all parents had sacrificed all their love for you now it’s your time love them to forget that all wht u did against them”.
Remember no body knows about last birth and no body will know about the next birth.
You have this birth now so don’t hurt your Parents and Go Back to home And live Happilly.
Future and Somebody waiting for you but as time moves you will find that all.
Your Well Wisher.
Dharmesh Radadiya.September 23, 2013 at 10:38 pm #42683
HI P Lope,
It’s very sad to listen but i can ask you one thing keep it in your mind for life time”Don’t respect those people who doesn’t Respect your feellings”.
And never blamed your self for these all coz you and god is victim for your true love and feellings.I think this is not your bad luck that you are suffering from this hard moments but this is bad luck of your husband that everything is within his hand and he is unable to see that all.
God made everyone for everyperson in this beautiful world so keep in mind that this will be your turning point of your life if you take it possitively and wait for some time bcoz i think somebody very far from you but still waiting for you k so dnt loose your hope and keep trust on god.
This is a lesson of your life and do not blamed any one for these all not even to god B’coz if we do not face these all then we never come to know the true value of life.And i think this is very dangerous if you living with such guy who has alchoholic addiction k.It is his bad luck not yours k so concentrate on your life goals and look at life for your childrens if you have coz its happens offently when parents divorced tht child will cursed for that all.
So Dnt worry about that all as time moves situation will be better Trust on God K God is Everywhere May be with you right now just came to open your eyes to End up your relationship with that guy who does’t respect your feellings.
I can understand the Depth ur love and sorrows k but if i made any mistake to suggest you i am so sorry for that.
Your well Wisher.
Dharmesh Radadiya.September 23, 2013 at 9:23 pm #42677
Welcome,one more suggestion i want to give you that just think one thing that how you celebrated your birthday before someone came in your life?think about that and celebrate with same happiness before and i think the best way of celebration of birthday is by distributing happiness to people who really need it,I mean you can celebrate your b’day with Orphans those who don;t know even about wht is the valueof love of someone?ok, if you celebrate with them you and they both get good happiness and i think happiness is the best thing to gift ok hope this will also help you.
Dharmesh Radadiya.September 23, 2013 at 8:21 pm #42673
I can understand depth of sorrows but if you look to your past you can never concentrate on your present.It is offently happen that bcoz of our past we can not concentrate on our present pls it is my request you to that just open your eyes and look around you lots of happiness is waiting for you look so many peoples suggesting you that means you are very precious person and wht we need more if people respect our sorrows and understand us.
So dont be sad and enjoy your birthday.
Happy Birthday in Advance.
Thanks.September 22, 2013 at 11:24 pm #42615
Do not need to Cry Because you have someone who loves you so much you just need to think it Differently.Because the way you are thinking will harm you and your relationship too.whatever happened in our life is only god gift because god never do injustice with anybody k.
It always depends on us that how we take problems?what we think about problems?if you think and ask your self you will definately find answer of it.
After all breakup is not ending of relationship.Because according to me if someone cares for you then do not let them go from your life.And we realize true value of any person after letting them away from our life.
After breakup If you do anything that you have done with your loved once will again make you to remember.So think once before take any decision.
I hope this will help you if i made any mistake i am so sorry For that
I Pray to god to help you to find out the right Path And everything Will make good Soon in your Relationship.
Dharmesh Radadiya.September 22, 2013 at 11:11 pm #42614
I can understand what u want to say i had also the same question,finding the answer of this question.I Search a lot on internet about how to start mediatation what are the types of Meditation.Finally i got some answers that i want to share with you.
1)Meditation Means in Simple terms”Zero Thoughts”i know it is very Difficult at all but Practice makes the man perfect as time moves you can control Your Thoughts.That is very good thing that you want to be teacher in future but for that you must teach your own self first Bcoz world needs only Truth.
2)There are so many literature and videos available on net for Meditation.Many People use different methods of meditation like Concentrate on Flame OF candle,Listening Music and this is very effective technique b’coz if you cant stop your thoughts music will help you to stop that.You have just to follow every beats of music nothing else that will divert your mind from thinking listen soft music only like Music of Piano,Guitar etc.
After all Meditation is the only thing of Concentration it will take some time but after that you Have Different Vision For World.
I personally feel Effect Of meditation When i was In Std 9 I Speak a lot and was thinking unneccesarry.Behave like abnormal.
But as i started meditation after one month the event happend it was miracle for me and also for everyone.I was not as before i changed totally I speak only limited,I became very humble and honest,I can stop Unnecessarry Thoughts in mind, Even i can control emotions that harms me.And Many Of my friends told me that “You Changed Totally”Have you Take any medicine.I told them Yes I took tablet Of Meditation.
After all Meditation Needs Lots Of Practice without any Gapes.Once you learn it will be very easy for you then you can Meditate Everywhere.