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Finding Home After Divorce: What Brought Me Peace and Healing

By Priscilla Dann-Courtney in Blog, change & challenges, love & relationships

“We need to learn how to navigate our minds, both the good and the bad, the light and the dark, so that ultimately, we can create acceptance and open our arms and come home to ourselves.” ~Candy Leigh

Divorce is so common that my son, at a young age, asked if my husband and I could divorce so he could have “a mom’s and dad’s house too!” And my daughter agreed because then “we could get double presents on holidays!” Given my experience as a child with divorced parents, I assured them, “Guys, divorce is not really that much fun.”…

How I Found Hope in my Father’s Terminal Cancer

By Kristin Nordmark in Blog, love & relationships

“Without realizing it, the individual composes his life according to the laws of beauty, even in times of greatest distress.” ~Milan Kundera

When my father received a terminal cancer diagnosis, I went through a wave of different emotions. Fear, anger, sadness. It opened a completely new dictionary that I had not had access to before. A realm of experiences, thoughts, and emotions that lie at the very bedrock of human life was suddenly revealed to me.

After the initial horror and dread at hearing the news had subsided, I was surprised to find a new sense of meaning and …

Environments That Bring Out the Softness in You

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Growing Old Gratefully: How to See Each Year as a Gift

By Suzie Headley in Blog, healthy habits

Growing old gratefully. Yes, you read that right. Gratefully. Why on earth would I be grateful for getting older, less youthful, and more wrinkly with every passing year?? I hear you cry. Let me tell you why I’m trying hard to do just that.

One bright Saturday afternoon some years back, while chatting with my uncle, he reminded me that my fortieth birthday was fast approaching. I rolled my eyes and said, “Yes, Uncle, thanks for the reminder.”

He looked at me for a minute and then said, “You know, you should be grateful for every year of life you …

Let People Be Wrong

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Why Someone Has Been Grieving for So Long

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

We Are Both Darkness and Light: How to Reconcile Them and Grow

By Eleni Stephanides in Blog, change & challenges

“We have to bear our own toxicity. Only by facing our own shadows can we eventually become more light. Yes, you are kind. But you’re also cruel. You are thoughtful. But you’re also selfish. You are both light and shadow. I want authenticity. I want real. I claim both my light and my shadow.” ~Kerry Mangis

Many of us can recall the painful moments that have shaped us. As we grow older, we become intimately aware of all the ways we were hurt, wronged, or betrayed. I think it’s a natural impulse, to number these moments …

Heard, Seen, and Felt

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

I’m Not Giving Up

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Workaholics: Why Staying Busy Feels Safe and How It Takes a Toll

By Krissy Loveman in Blog, work fulfillment

“The ego desperately wants safety. The soul wants to live. The truth is, we cannot lead a real life without risk. We do not develop depth without pain.” ~Carol S. Pearson

Workaholism is the body’s wisdom in action, literally.

Some people develop workaholic tendencies because they crave to be seen as the best through their accomplishments.

But I’m not here to talk about people who’re obsessed over their image.

The particular strain of “workaholism” that isn’t talked about enough is a perfectionist’s addiction to productivity.

It has little to do with being recognized for your brilliance or achievements in the …

Our Job Is Not to Sell People on Loving Us

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Two Things Not to Do After a Traumatic Event (Lessons from Being Robbed)

By Rita Yvonne in Blog, change & challenges

“True emotional healing happens by feeling. The only way out is through.” ~Jessica Moore

Have you ever loved someone so much that you could no longer see who they really were? Or have you ever been young and naive to the danger that surrounds you?

I’m the first to raise my hand and say I did that! I’m a person who trusts people until they give me a reason not to.

Trust

Trust can be broken in so many ways by those you least expect it from; those you love and thought loved you. In some cases, it may not …

Feeling Happens by Healing

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Have I Worked Enough to Deserve Rest?

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

True Friends

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

How to Let People in So You Can Feel Seen, Heard, and Supported

By Orly Levy in Blog, love & relationships

“We are hard-wired to connect with others, it’s what gives purpose and meaning to our lives, and without it there is suffering.” ~Brené Brown

In relationships, I have always felt more comfortable being on the sidelines rather than center stage. I liked playing the supporting role to many people’s leading roles. I am good at it; it’s the career I chose for myself as a life coach. However, personally, constantly staying in the role of supporter created resentment.

I felt unseen and unheard, and many of my relationships began to feel one-sided—with me listening and holding space for them and …