Dear Robi:

A year & 3 months. I’m impressed by how well you’re doing compared to how badly I would be doing if I lived back with my mother.

“I feel as if I’m getting dumber here”- if I lived with my mother for a year and 3 months, or just 3 days, or 3 hours, I would be.. no, no, there wouldn’t even be an “I”.

I did a bit of a study recently in regard to the separation- individuation developmental process ( developing from a child fused with one’s parents to a separate, individual adult)- based on what you shared back in June 2018.

Would you like me to tell you about it?

Anita