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Lori Deschene is the Founder of Tiny Buddha. She recently launched her Tiny Wisdom eBook Series which includes one free eBook. Follow Lori on Twitter @tinybuddha for inspiring posts and wisdom quotes.

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Giveaway and Interview: Seeing, Knowing, Being by John Greer

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  • Regardless of our individual beliefs, we all want to feel a sense of wholeness to experience the present moment with peace and connection.… Read More

    Tiny Wisdom: Think Less, Feel More

    “Get out of your head and get into your heart. Think less, feel more.” ~Osho

    Have you ever felt attached to your thoughts—like you knew you were thinking yourself in circles, but a part of you wanted to keep getting dizzy?

    Now that I’m healthy and energized, three months after my surgery, I’m developing a consistent yoga practice again—and I’m feeling better mentally and physically as a result of doing that.… Read More

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    Tiny Wisdom: Remembering the Good Things

    “Joy in looking and comprehending is nature’s most beautiful gift.” ~Albert Einstein

    As I was walking to my apartment just now, I heard the voice of a child who was walking in the same direction with an adult across the street.

    With his enthusiastic, high-pitched voice he asked, “Remember we went on a plane?… Read More

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    8 Reasons to Buy the Tiny Wisdom eBook Series (Available Now!)

     

    Since Tiny Buddha launched in 2009, I’ve written hundreds of “Tiny Wisdom” blog posts. In the beginning, I kept these short and peripheral.

    Over time, I started putting more of myself into them and giving them a lot more love and attention. Suddenly, these posts became far more popular than I ever thought they’d be.… Read More

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    Tiny Wisdom: Caring About What Others Think (and Do)

    “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” ~Eleanor Roosevelt

    Growing up I often heard the phrase “You shouldn’t care so much.”

    Derivatives of this idea included: So what if they’re talking about you. Who cares what they think? He’s a jerk; why do you care about him? You’re your own person; why do you care about what she’s doing?… Read More

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    Tiny Wisdom: Loving the Process of a Passion

    “Never underestimate the power of passion.” ~Eve Sawyer

    Last week, I began writing my second book. I originally intended to start a month ago, but life got in the way, as it often does.

    In order to make my September deadline, I’ll need to maintain a high level of output and adhere to a fairly rigid schedule.… Read More

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    Tiny Wisdom: Help People Help Themselves

    “Nobody can give you wiser advice than yourself.” ~Cicero

    Since I write about overcoming adversity, I receive a lot of emails and blog comments from readers seeking advice.

    When I first started this site, I promised myself I’d never tell readers not to email seeking feedback. I’d seen this type of disclaimer on other blogs, and I decided I wanted to do things differently.… Read More

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    Tiny Wisdom: Being Both Strong and Hurt

    “Pain is not a sign of weakness, but bearing it alone is a choice to grow weak.” ~from my book, Tiny Buddha

    A while back, my friends and I dealt with a challenging situation that profoundly affected all of us, including one friend who struggles with intense anxiety.

    While I’m usually a proponent of giving specifics, I’d rather not call her out publicly, so suffice it to say it was a hard time, and everyone felt the weight of it.… Read More

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    Giveaway and Author Interview: Patience by Allan Lokos

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  • Patience is one of those qualities we aspire to possess, but sometimes struggle to embody. We associate patience with goodness—and for good reason, since patience enables us to be loving and supportive to others.… Read More

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    Tiny Wisdom: Stop Fighting and Be Easy

    “If you surrender completely to the moments as they pass, you live more richly those moments.” ~Anne Morrow Lindbergh

    There was a time when I was full of angst, and desperate to unleash it.

    Since I felt misunderstood in some of my relationships, I’d fight battles I knew I wouldn’t win and then only consider letting go after a mini emotional break down.… Read More

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    Tiny Wisdom: Actions Speak Louder Than Words

    “Actions speak louder than words, but not nearly as often.” ~Mark Twain

    A while back, I wrote a blog post about giving people the benefit the doubt, and suggested, as I often do, that people rarely intend to be hurtful.

    Someone wrote in the comments that I’ve obviously never encountered a sociopath.… Read More

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    Tiny Wisdom: Treat People How They Want to Be Treated

    “If we are to live together in peace, we must come to know each other better.” ~Lyndon Johnson

    A while back, I told a friend that I try to follow the old adage “Treat people how you wanted to be treated.” He responded that he tries to treat people how they want to be treated.… Read More

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    Giveaway and Interview: Learning to Breathe by Priscilla Warner

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  • In the past decade, I have read more than my fair share of self-help books.

    Though I’ve enjoyed the ones with countless action steps and workbook sheets to change my life, I’ve felt the most moved and inspired by honest, personal stories of overcoming adversity.… Read More

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    4 Powerful Lessons from a Life Well Lived

    “We must each lead a way of life with self-awareness and compassion, to do as much as we can. Then, whatever happens we will have no regrets.” ~Dalai Lama

    This year on June 4th, one of my greatest heroes passed away.

    I’d been planning to travel back to Massachusetts mid-month for my sister’s bridal shower, but I learned at the end of May that my grandmother was in the hospital.… Read More

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    Tiny Wisdom: Rebuilding Trust After Being Hurt

    “When mistrust comes in, love goes out.” ~Irish saying

    An old friend of mine felt betrayed by her boyfriend, but chose not to leave him. Instead, she made him pay for it over and over again.

    Through subtle digs and less subtle slights, she repeatedly expressed that she felt contempt for him.… Read More

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    Tiny Wisdom: What We Pay Attention To

    “Tell me to what you pay attention and I will tell you who you are.” ~Jose Ortega y Gassett

    Have you ever suddenly stopped yourself after realizing you’d been dwelling on something insignificant for way too long?

    Maybe it was something that didn’t go right in your day, or something mildly offensive that someone said.… Read More

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    Giveaway and Author Interview: Choosing Me Before We

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  • Lindy Parsons
  • We all have it: a voice inside our heads that tells us what we can and cannot do and undermines our self-esteem.… Read More

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    Tiny Wisdom: What Makes Us Rich

    “If you realize that you have enough, you are truly rich.” ~Lau Tzu

    In the Pixar movie Up, Carl and Ellie save all their lives to visit Paradise Falls, only to realize they’re never able to save enough. Every time they build a substantial nest egg, life happens and they need to spend it.… Read More

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    Tiny Wisdom: Enjoying the People We Love

    “Good relationships don’t just happen. They take time, patience, and two people who truly want to be together.” ~Unknown

    In the past, whenever I heard someone say that relationships take effort, I assumed it was a person who wasn’t in a happy one.

    When it’s right, it shouldn’t feel like work; it should be effortless—or so I thought, ironically, in a time when I had few relationships.… Read More

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    Giveaway and Interview: Saying Yes to Change

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  • Have you ever formed a friendship with someone whose beliefs differ from yours only to realize you have quite a bit in common?… Read More

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