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Posts by Treina M. Saint

Treina M. Saint is a Canadian-born writer living in Buffalo, New York. Her personal essays explore relationships, loneliness, faith, survival, and the lifelong work of learning to see oneself clearly. She is currently completing her memoir, The Girl I Couldn't See.

When You’re Doing Everything Right but Still Feel Lonely

“We are all so much together, but we are all dying of loneliness.” ~Albert Schweitzer

I pick up my phone even though it has not made a sound.

No missed calls. No new messages. No invitation asking what I am doing or whether I would like to come over. I put it down, but before long I check again.

Still no one.

The only other heartbeat in the house belongs to Oliver, my five-pound chihuahua. He brings me more joy than something so small should be able to carry. I talk to him constantly, and he listens with great interest …