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BenzRabbitParticipantHi Mia,
What you need is a good loving relationship but before that can manifest you need to heal yourself of your emotional wounds first – so they don’t spoil your future!
Please read the book ‘You can heal your life’ by Louise Hay.
I pray your angels guide you forward and you find love and joy.
GOD bless!
BenzRabbitParticipantYou can be happy ‘for a while’!
When you are young, you will make your life ‘busy’ with work, friends, and other social activities to keep the loneliness away….but when you get older it will manifest itself in ways you could never imagine!!
Having said that, do not turn into a desperate person!!!
I pray you find your soulmate soon.
GOD bless!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi B,
I feel your pain – it is very difficult when love is not returned!
As difficult as it is, the only thing in your control is to “TRY” to let go of the person. Sometimes, people come into our lives and we share a bond with them unlike any other, but if the Universe decides it is not the right way forward then separation occurs!!
If it is truly meant to be, the other person will come back into your life – if not, you are still very young and the Universe will find someone even better for you.
DO NOT give up – everything will work out – your job is to take it ‘one day at a time’ till you come into your good times.
Web links do not show up in posts anymore but here is the link to a song I love: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EGLSk3AVcUU
If it doesn’t show above, it is called ‘You are loved’ by Josh Groban – please listen to it.
I pray your angels guide you forward – wishing you much peace and happiness.
GOD bless!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi Jessa,
I am sorry for your loss and feel your pain!
The simple answer to your question is “Karma” – both good and bad things that happen to us are a part of our karma!
Karma does not fit into any religion except Hinduism/Buddhism, and hence it is so difficult for people to accept!!
Please do not let the grieving/sadness turn into depression – you have happiness just ahead of you.
God bless!
BenzRabbitParticipantDear Slider:
You are a “HSP” (Highly Sensitive Person) and there is nothing wrong with being one – please read the book ‘The Highly Sensitive Person’ by Dr. Elaine Aron.
Re your marriage situation, please Do Not consume alcohol when dealing with the situation – alcohol fogs the mind and you will make wrong decisions or statements which will make the situation worse!
Both, you and your wife, seem to be nice people that have shut down in their own ways out of frustration with each other!!
Every marriage goes thru a tough period at some point and it is very difficult to find a good partner again. I would suggest trying to save the marriage by going to a marriage counselor – who knows, it could be that talking things out in the presence of an unbiased professional could begin the healing for both of you. If not, you would have at least tried to save the marriage.
God bless and good luck!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi Kathleen,
It seems you have unresolved issues from your childhood…causing self-doubt. Please read this short article…it should help:
http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-WorthDon’t be so hard on yourself….money and career are not everything. You are blessed with a good husband/relationship and that is more valuable than rubies and diamonds !
Wishing you lots of happiness !!
GOD bless !!!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi wisdom,
People come into our lives that we have a past life connection with…and we fall madly in love with them…but they not with us causing us great heartache/pain !
The ONLY thing in YOUR control is to let go….if it is truly meant to be he/she will return….if not, that is your karma and you HAVE to move on….there is NO OTHER WAY !!
Please also realize that we have more than one soulmate…..it is NOT the end of the world….though it feels like that at this time.
You are a valuable human being and a child of GOD….and you have a great future ahead of you which you cannot see now because you are in the dark. Step out into the light my friend…no one else can do this for you.
Please read this short article:
http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-WorthI pray your angels guide you forward.
GOD bless !
BenzRabbitParticipantHi Wisdom,
Anita has given you some very good advice – GOD bless u Anita for all the good work you do here !
Wisdom, I will only add that unlike humans, GOD is NOT vengeful !!
The Universe is asking you to find your own ‘strength’…and not depend on other people’s approval. It is not easy but it is doable….and once you find it you will overcome obstacles you previously thought impossible.
Please be careful trying to get into relationships without healing/strengthening yourself first – read the book called ‘Heal your life’ by Louise Hay – here is the link to her website:
http://www.healyourlife.com/authors/louise-l-hayGOD bless !
BenzRabbitParticipantHi Samrat,
OCD is NOT Sin or Bad Karma!
It is just a condition many have just like any other physical/biological condition.
Here is the link to the International OCD Foundation website which has information that will help you:
GOD bless !
BenzRabbitParticipantBillie,
You have been given good advice above.
I will only add that the reason you are not “at peace with yourself”, it is because the Universe is asking you to find your “inner” strength !
Your past with your parents/family has left you with deep scars that no one from the outside can heal – you have to do this Yourself. You need to forgive/forget the past, and develop new courage to face life head on and find happiness !!
You can do this on your own or you can choose counseling. Here is a link that will help get you started:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/culturally-speaking/201303/overcoming-the-pain-childhood-abuse-and-neglectDon’t thing too much about the birthmark – to our true loves/soulmates these things are non-issues and do not bother them.
I pray you find peace and happiness soon !
God bless !!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi Emily,
I feel your pain – divorce is never easy !
You are young with a full life ahead – and will love again – but you have to heal first !!
Please read the book ‘You can heal your life’ by Louise Hay – here is her website:
http://www.healyourlife.com/Please think real hard about getting back together with your ex – the divorce happened for a reason, and once things are broken it is usually very difficult to put them back like they were.
I pray your angels guide you forward !
GOD bless !!
BenzRabbitParticipantDivya,
It is better to be alone than in a bad relationship / divorced !
You have gone through a rough period – I have a feeling it will be over soon !!
Please read this:
http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-WorthGOD bless !
BenzRabbitParticipantInnah,
There is something else going on that is causing you to become over-sensitive and depressive – usually it is family or a bf/gf that is the cause – or loneliness !
Go within and find the cause !!
You are an intelligent young person with a full life ahead of you – even if you make a mistake you can correct course.
Please don’t be so hard on yourself because of others !
GOD bless !!
BenzRabbitParticipantJess,
Please DO NOT even think of jumping off any building !
You are a kind and gentle soul that has gone through too much crap at a very young age !!
If you are not ready to leave now then your next option becomes to wait until you turn 18.
Just know you deserve love and affection and to be treated as a human being.
Here is the link to the National Child Abuse organization that can assist you:
If you are in the US or Canada you can call them 24 hours a day and just talk to them anonymously – their toll free number is 1-800-422-4453.
I pray your angels guide you forward !
GOD Bless !!
BenzRabbitParticipantAnnie,
Sensitive people have a tough time because it is a rare condition and family does not understand it !
Please read the book ‘The Highly sensitive person’ by Dr. Elaine Aron – here is her website which also has other information:
Depression makes you feel life is miserable and will always stay that way – but life does get better – Slowly !
It is natural as a human to want love and companionship – you Will find love again – please be patient and have faith in yourself and the Universe !
GOD bless !!
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