Developing Self-Compassion When You Don’t Think You’re Enough
“He who knows that enough is enough will always have enough.” ~Lao Tzu
I’m at war with enoughness.
My stomach isn’t flat enough; I’m not extroverted enough; I don’t have enough money in my wallet; I’m not creative enough; I’m not getting enough work done.
There are times when the Jaws of Life cannot free me from my expectations and negative self-talk. The battle with enoughness is a vicious cycle.
Here’s an example: I’m both shy and introverted, so I’m afraid of being judged and I prefer quiet environments.
I was easily overlooked in school because I was reluctant …