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I think that he passes through tough times,so you’re his victim.He releases his argue or sadness into you,because he sees you as a threat.Probably he sees that you are calmer and he fights against it.
Don’t lose yourself,i think he’s jealous…because you’re open minded,and he has nothing new,no interests..so he don’t want you to have either.Hello,i feel you because i was in the same situation.All you have to do is to build self-confidence.
When we are in a relationship we feel jealous of someone or that we’ll lose our partner (girl,boy )
This comes from inside.No matter what he/she offers to us we feel insecure that maybe one day we’ll not be good enough
for the person we love and he/she will abandon us.You need to feel happy inside you,make things that can make you feel better (when you feel insecure).
Remember that when we feel that we may lose the person we love, he/she sees it, understands it.
I don’t suggest you to hide your feelings ,but try to make good thoughts about yourself and not you’re not good enough..
Unfortunately in my past relationship my ex understood that i was super insecure and jealous of his class-mate,friend,or ex.
This is your hypothesis and it’s not his fault,neither yours anyway,but you have to do the job for yourself!
Last tip is that nobody is nobody’s…so when you think abou it you may be more calm and secure..@Bren
you’re not stuck! This feeling is in your mind and stops you from being happy (or finding a partner).Try to see things logically.You are here you live for the moment,do everything to make yourself feel happy.You are the most valuable thing you have.You must take care of yourself.
There’s nothing wrong with you…When we’re in love we use to prettify PEOPLE and things,so when we get out of this situations,our walls break down.
After a divorce we need to focus on ourselves because the strength we had we gave it all to the ex! our loved ones.
but it’s time to give love to ourselves..we must be happy and lovable by us and no need of others to make us liked.
Treat yourself good… the good feelings and the good thoughts will help you! That’s all…That is how we get out of difficult times.Think positive until you get the habit !!!These people are trying to hurt you.My family does the same thing,my brother and my sister tell me what I am and what I am not!
Yes,stop talking to him for a while.Stop react to his beliefs,ignore him,do sth you like and forget about him.Pretend that he is not at home and don’t talk to him.If he’ll talk to you,respond peacefully.He will try to make you angry but don’t respond in this occasion.
My brother and sister ,today,when i was thinking about talking to them,they argued with me and so I get out of there.We haven’t talked since then.Never mind…i’m in peaceful mind right now.Who cares….
Do the same.Don’t feed the arguement or the negativity (they have).They don’t have control over you.Hello, the best think to do is be far away from social networking..facebook etc It’s a practical way and i did it today,after one year of suffering i decided that this is the best think to do.Build up your life without worrying about nobody!
Think about your goals, your life and don’t give time to your mind to think about a person WHOEVER is this.Nobody can steal your happiness.Nobody.Don’t let them.Get rid of these people.
If someone makes you feel bad,get rid of him.It doesnt matter who he/she is.Have a great day.
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