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How to Clear the Emotional Clutter That Weighs You Down

“Declutter your mind, your heart, your home. Let go of the heaviness that is weighing you down.” ~Maria Defillo

I remember perusing through a used bookstore in a small New England town as a teenager. A book caught my eye—maybe because its spine was a MacIntosh apple red—and I slid it off the shelf. It was titled Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui by Karen Kingston.

Back at home in my apartment in Boston, I devoured it. That book shifted the trajectory of my life. Fast-forward seventeen years later and living clutter-free is not only my lifestyle, it’s my calling …

Navigating Social Anxiety: 10 Powerful NLP Tools for Personal Growth

By Dorothee Marossero in Blog, love & relationships

“We need each other, deeper than anyone ever dares to admit even to themselves. I think it is a genetic imperative that we huddle together and hold on to each other.” ~Patch Adams

A few years ago, I was invited to a work event. When I received the invitation a few months before, the idea seemed fun—a friendly gathering with colleagues, filled with vibrant conversations and laughter, enabling me to create human connections in the workplace.

As the day approached, a familiar knot tightened in my stomach, I couldn’t breathe deeply, and an overwhelming sense of unease took hold. I …

When the People We Love Shut Us Out: What I Now Understand

By Carly Crone in Blog, love & relationships

“Have patience that is all unresolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves, like closed rooms, like books written like a foreign language.” ~Rainer Maria Rilke

I started thinking about a distant relative on a walk in the woods. I had thought about her more often when she suddenly stopped speaking to our family, well over a decade ago. I would reach out to her through email, but after not hearing back over the years, I thought about her less and less and eventually stopped trying to connect with her.

On this particular walk, I began to

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Be a Witness, Not a Judge

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Three Things in Life

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

How I Found a Beautiful Purpose by Giving Up the Search

By Charlotte Burke in Blog, meaning & passion

“You and your purpose in life are the same thing. Your purpose is to be you.” ~George Alexiou

We all play a pivotal role in society. But I’ve toyed with the New Age spiritual notion that we all have a unique purpose on Earth to fulfill—a purpose for which we have chosen to be here.

I used to wonder if I could only be happy if I found this one resounding and elusive purpose.

If I knew my soul’s purpose, I believed my life would suddenly have endless meaning and vitality. Once I found my purpose, I would leap out …

They Deserve Less Access

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Givers Need to Be Replenished Too

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Let Your Mistakes Make You a Better Person

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

A Mindfulness Technique to Overcome Perfectionism and Step into Self-Love

By Kim Buchwald in Blog, love & relationships

“When we allow ourselves to be vulnerable, we are not pretending, we are not hiding—we are simply present with whatever is going on inside us. Ironically, it is this very feeling of authenticity that draws people to us, not the brittle effort of perfectionism.” ~Maureen Cooper

Most of my life I have been really good at following the have-tos and oughts of perfectionism.

I have to keep the house clean. What will the company think?

I ought to be pleasant and pleasing. Stop being stubborn. Worse yet, stop being angry.

I should not have told that long story …

Adult Friendships Are Hard

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

How to Create a Vision Board That Actually Works (Free eCourse with Journal Purchase!)

By Lori Deschene in Blog, meaning & passion

We all have goals for the future, many of them things that would dramatically improve our lives and the lives of the people we love.

Maybe you want to get healthy and fit so you can live a longer, more active life and be there for your kids for years to come. Maybe you want to pay off your debt so you can reduce your stress and increase your financial security. Or perhaps you want to launch a business so you can have more control over your schedule and make the impact you want to make in the world.

It’s …

You’ll Get Through It Again

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

5 Things to Remember When Heartbreak Feels Too Heavy to Bear

By Lydia Klemensowicz in Blog, love & relationships

“If you feel like you’re losing everything, remember that trees lose their leaves every year and they still stand tall and wait for better days to come.” ~Unknown

For a big lover like me, heartbreak has always gotten the best of me. I have felt heavy pain from the ending of a relationship, the ghosting of a situationship, and the loss of what could have been with someone I never dated. And I’ve experienced the sting of friendships leaving my life.

It’s all heartbreaking.

It starts with a crippling, piercing full-body agony. And eventually it grows into a dull ache …

What Makes a Relationship Perfect

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

If You Want to Be Happy

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

181 Days Teetotal (And Counting): All I’ve Gained Since I Stopped Drinking

By Mel Wilder in Blog, healthy habits, letting go

TRIGGER WARNING: This post references an account of sexual assault and may be triggering to some.

“When you quit drinking you stop waiting.” ~Caroline Knapp, Drinking: A Love Story

I’m now at 181 days teetotal. I prefer teetotal to sober. I say sober sometimes, but teetotal feels lighter, airier, and I feel lighter and airier these days.

For the life of me, I can’t remember when I took my first sip of alcohol. It probably came from a grownup’s glass.

What I can remember is being sixteen or so, half waking up from a blackout with a friend’s hand down …