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    anita
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    Hey 🙂 Confused:

    Yes, I had a short conversation with Copilot and at the end, he suggested the post above.

    It was not a long conversation, but being that Copilot knows me and you, he knew what he was talking about.

    He said it was like I was carrying you (in the sense of explaining and re- explaining and interpreting and connecting the dots for you) while you were not moving (things staying the same, mentally and emotionally).

    He said that your defense mechanism is to not see the connection between your current struggles and your childhood, and that if I pressure you on this front, I am stupid (well, ‘stupid’ is my word, not Copilot’s)

    Regardless, I still like you and think highly of you, and I am here 4 U.

    Thank you for the appreciation and kindness! U R the 🐝’s knees!

    🐝 🌿 👏 🤢-not ✨️ Anita

    #457666
    Confused
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    Oh yeah i see the point. It’s like u are showing me the sun while i have my eyes closed involuntarily.

    So according to him, my defense is to have my whole past completely buried and unprocessed or something like that.. that could be right.

    Something else, when the therapist asked me today “what would the child u need”, i think i blurted out “safety”, but idk how or where to ask it from.

    Same here anita 🙂

    Haha i forgot about the emojis and this phrase, its phone time!

    #457667
    anita
    Participant

    Yes, 📱 time, ha-ha.

    Thank you for saying same- here 🙏

    Yes, something like that, well, exactly like that.

    S.A.F.E.T.Y is it, a key 🔑 human need.

    Growing up in unsafety, unpredictability, chaos.. it messes with you. Well, it messed with me big time.

    Feeling-Thinking- Doing better now ✨️

    🐝 🧠 🐰 Anita

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