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BenzRabbitParticipantEliana,
Your answer was just right!
GOD bless!!
BenzRabbitParticipantSelena,
Usually, siblings and families DO NOT change!
YOU have to change….yourself and your environment!!
If you are in a western country (USA/Canada/Europe) there are multiple state/county and government resources available to you. If not, contact a church/temple/any religious center or social service organization.
Prayers and hugs sent your way.
GOD bless!!!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi JM,
Sometimes we connect with people from our past…..and it hurts when they don’t feel the same as we do – but nothing in life can be one-sided….it takes 2 people to make a relationship work!
What’s done is done…..you did the right thing being the nice giving person you are!!
Spare yourself more heartache and be strong my friend – you deserve better!!!
GOD Bless!
BenzRabbitParticipantDear NAO,
Sometimes some things in life are better left unsaid!
For now at least, let it go because exposing it may do more harm than good…..to everyone in your family AND to yourself!!
GOD Bless!!!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi Louise,
You have been given some good advice above…..I will only add that there have been many cases where ‘incurable’ diseases/conditions were cured without any medical explanations…..so have faith and believe in miracles….you never know what the future brings!
Please watch the Tom Hanks movie “Cast Away” – it needs patience but will give you many answers!!
Do the best you can for now and please Do Not compare you life to others……sometimes life throws us curveballs that are very unfair but eventually work out in our favor…..it is a Test!!
GOD bless!!!
BenzRabbitParticipantkk,
You did not hurt anyone physically…and you CANNOT change the past…..so TRY to let it go!
It seems much bigger to you than it is…..life can throw much worse stuff at you that can knock the wind out of you!!
GOD bless!!!
BenzRabbitParticipantFor KnK….by George Michael – who was also physically and verbally abused by his father!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi KnK,
You are a kind soul that has gone thru the pain of being hurt by your own father….in my opinion, there is no excuse for a father beating up his own child multiple times….NONE…..end of story!
It causes pain that lasts into adulthood but know you can be healed…..there is no immediate cure but slowly everything will work out.
Please know you are a valuable person that deserves love and happiness.
GOD bless you my friend!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi kdizzle,
Glad you are trying to move on from the painful experiences of the past!
You mentioned you cannot afford therapy – here is the link to a site that should help you:
http://www.aftersilence.org/Wishing you much peace and happiness going forward!!
God bless!!!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi lostsoul86,
I feel your pain….and it sucks that you had to go through bullying and loss of eyesight in your younger days!
The effects of bullying sometimes show up in adulthood and can be very painful memories!!
Also, depression can be passed down through our parents….so, be very careful and make sure it does not take hold on you!!!
Sometimes life tests us and it becomes very difficult just waiting for love….but please don’t lose hope. When the time is right, the right person will show up in your life.
Read the story of ‘Stephen Hawking’ the English physicist…he was severely disabled early in life and yet found love!
I pray your angels guide you to your soulmate soon.
God bless!
BenzRabbitParticipantHi Sigfred,
You are NOT a loser….just someone who is going through a tough and dark time!
Sometimes life bring us to our knees and everything seems bleak and hopeless….but darkness always gives way to light!!
Find YOUR light my friend….EVERY human has one!!!
Here are 2 links that should help you:
http://www.helpguide.org/home-pages/depression.htm
http://www.helpguide.org/home-pages/suicide-prevention.htmI pray your angels guide you forward.
GOD bless!
ps: here is the link to a song called “don’t give up”….listen to it:
BenzRabbitParticipantDear Poppyxo,
You are a gentle and trusting soul!
If you still feel you should get back with this person, so be it….but also think out the process what you would do if things go south again!!
Do not let anyone take your kind nature for granted!!!
God bless!
BenzRabbitParticipantDear Hollypop,
Glad all is well.
Do not let anyone convince you to drink when you don’t want to!
If someone still tries to convince you to drink, walk away from them!!
God bless!!!
December 24, 2016 at 6:04 pm in reply to: Alone for christmas again, any advice to stay positive? #123507BenzRabbitParticipantHi Rosaly,
Being alone is not fun….and it is specially difficult around Christmas!
You have been given some good suggestions above. The positive thing is that you are only 24….so time is on your side. Keep the faith…..when the time is right, the right person will show up in your life!!
I pray your angels give you strength to endure this lonely time…and send you someone awesome soon!!!
God bless!
ps: below is the link to a great song by the late Michael Jackson called “you are not alone”….hope it helps
BenzRabbitParticipantHi Prab,
You are being too hard on yourself!
You are young and have your life ahead of you – stop comparing yourself to others and be the unique human being you were meant to be!!
Also, please do not date guys just for the sake of feeling good – nothing good will come out of it! VALUE Yourself!!
Wishing you much success and happiness.
GOD bless!
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