Dear Confused- my heart is breaking a bit for you tonight- here, across the world from you 🙁

You take all the responsibility for what happened when truly, it’s at least 50-50. Her anxiety predated ever meeting you and it’s been huge enough to make a relationship with anyone an uphill battle.

You are not responsible for the (severe) anxiety she brought with her into the relationship with you.

I’m about to go to bed, be back in the morning. Please be kind to the bee’s knees Confused!

Anita