Hey 🙂 Confused:

Wanting to help and not knowing how, or not having the time or the patience to invest in a human reply, and/ or wanting to sound fantastically (yet artificially) intelligent 🤔

The two of you are talking again 🙂

I think that she wants to feel chosen, special, to be your One and Only- in your mind, heart, words and actions.

I wonder (not that I am recommending it), what she would think if she read the how many pages of this thread where you talked about her so much. I wonder if she’d feel special.

Clearly, she’d want to be asked officially to be in a relationship with you, one where you show way more commitment than “seeing how it’s going”.

It just occurred to me that it may be a good idea for you- when you talk to her, when you say something- to pause and ask her what she thinks or feels about what you just said before saying more.

Anita