Hey 👋 Confused:

I am not very focused now and will reply further in the morning. But for now, about your last paragraph: yes, might-have-to- change that thinking!

A thinking that doesn’t work anymore, a thinking that is causing you nothing but distress.. – should be changed. Shouldn’t it, Confused?

I suppose that thinking (love= intensity, etc.) worked for you for a while, but it’s not working anymore. So, it takes adjusting, re- evaluating, changing.

Letting go of thinking that’s not working for you anymore.

Imagine readjusting to a different experience of love: something gentle, something mild, something that’s not life or death.

“If it doesn’t consume me”, it’s a good thing because it let’s you breathe.

More tomorrow.

🤔 🌙 🦉 🤢 🍷 🐔 🐇 Anita