Lisa Gardner, Author at Tiny Buddha

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Lisa Gardner teaches acting and voice at CUNY's York College in New York City. She's been on TV, on stage, and on theonion.com. She also plays the ukulele and gives great hugs. Follow her on Facebook and Twitter.

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5 Ways to Deal with Emotional Oversensitivity

By Lisa Gardner

“It isn’t what happens to us that causes us to suffer; it’s what we say to ourselves about what happens.” ~Pema Chodron

I’ve never been much of a sun worshipper. I’m a pale blend of Irish, Scottish, and English, so my skin goes from alabaster to boiled lobster in about twenty minutes.

Once when I was a teenager, someone accidentally smacked me on my sunburned back. I was in tears. She was genuinely sorry and I said I was all right, but secretly I was angry.

Couldn’t she see how red I was? How slowly I moved? Someone with …

Do You Take Up as Much Space as You Deserve?

By Lisa Gardner

“You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.” ~Maya Angelou

As a child, I got bombarded with the message that I was too much. Everywhere I turned, people said I was too loud, too smart, too heavy, too talkative, too impulsive, too intense, too happy, too forward, too silly.

My too-eager little self took those opinions as commandments, so I tried to fit the image of what others said I should be.

I made myself smaller. It never worked. Our authentic selves force their way to the …