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A Simple Guide to Achieving Personal Greatness & Living with Purpose

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“He is able who thinks he is able.” ~Buddha

The world has given us many outstanding people.

Although we possess our own unique talents, we look to leaders and mentors as models of action and success. They represent unlocked potential, perseverance, and shining lights for us to follow.

Since all paths are unique, we can’t follow exactly where others have been, but we can learn from their examples of confidence and dedication. It’s the difference between saying, “I want to be like Oprah Winfrey” or saying, “I want to be outstanding in my own right, like Oprah Winfrey.”

There are some, like Oprah, who can step out and shine despite hardship and extraordinary challenges. But most people who struggle with self-doubt, fear, or harsh circumstances remain stagnant.

It’s not enough to have the dream. It has to be accompanied with a strong belief in your own potential and a spirit driven to meet it.

A crucial step toward being your own version of outstanding is to identify your goals. Be realistic in this process. These goals should be ones you believe you can actually achieve. Goals do not guarantee success but they can create a focal point to form your own personal light or beacon.

Goals are the guides that lead you from where we are to where you aspire to be. Once you’ve identified your goals, you can then begin the task of preparing yourself for the journey.

Believe in yourself—easy to say, but not always easy to do.

This may well be the biggest obstacle on the course to impressing and inspiring yourself.

Your socio-economic, personal, and geographic challenges matter some, but truly, believing in yourself is the biggest step. Belief is a free resource that is available to everyone. It cannot be bought or sold, but it can indeed be learned, if necessary.

Whether a goal is to simply to work out tomorrow morning or to become president of your neighborhood association Board of Directors, believing you can actually do it is an engine that is powered by only you.

The path to personal greatness—whatever that means to you—is much more valuable if you use every step along the way as practice.

When you wake up tomorrow, wake up in outstanding fashion. When you prepare your clothes for the day, choose something fabulous to wear. Greet people throughout your day in a beautiful way.

Eat wonderful meals. Listen to beautiful music. Compliment those you know and even those you don’t on something you admire about them. Emanate the energy you want to attract.

Eventually, that energy will return to you forming a pattern. If your confidence was running on low before, it will soon begin to fill and radiate within you.

Too euphoric? Well, here’s the other shoe falling.

You will be tested. There will be moments (and days) when being buoyant just doesn’t fit into the plan. Don’t despair. Everyone deals with these moments. Accept them as opportunities to triumph and not to wallow in insecurities. It’s the only productive way to deal with this inevitability.

Use this down time for research or some other lightweight exercise that contributes to your goal. Keep it in sight at all times.

At the same time, don’t trick yourself into thinking that success will come if you do nothing. Consistency is crucial—and luckily, we are all blessed with the gift of determination.

All behaviors and actions, no matter the justification, come with a sense of determination. Do something courageous!

Create messages and mantras that inspire you. Surround yourself with experiences and individuals who are inspired, as well. Create the support you need and build your legacy with purpose.

Only you can create and follow the path that makes you feel passionate, meaningful, and happy.

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About Shelly Iyabode

Shelly Iyabode is an initiated priestess of Yemoja in the traditional Ifa practice. She embraces & integrates earth spiritual practices as a way of life. She is also a communications professional and senior production manager for a national magazine. Blogging and writing are her outlets for connecting and sharing "lightweight soul nourishment" for those who need it.

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  • http://uzma7.wordpress.com/ Uzma

    Hi Shelly. What can I say!! This is by far one of the most powerful article and wisdom I have read it a long time. More so because it speaks to me. I am still lost in finding my ideal goal, my purpose, but the idea of living every moment fantastically empowers me. So that is what I will do. Thank u so much and God bless.

  • SarahL

    I am resistant to goal-setting, even though I know how valuable it can be. Thanks for the reminder. I like what you say about using each step along the way. I guess that's the journey. I expect instant results and when I don't get that I throw my hands up in frustration and quit.

  • http://twitter.com/WarrenThrush Warren Thrush

    I have to agree with other commenters. This is a powerful post! It has reminded me of my need to reset some of the goals I've had and use them as a driver for change. Good, simple, direct stuff. A really great post. Thank you.

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  • JCTWNS

    This article meant so much to me. Just came from unfamiliar territory in my life. Now I’m ready to live again!! This just gave me the push I needed, to begin the Journey.. Thanks Alot!!

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_OCAOEKPSQBY3O3PJ6PNCYPKRBM

    Thanks for this post. I’m a sophomore in college and even this year I’ve been struggling in school. I just always think that I can’t pass a material but I just have to think to myself that I can, and be positive about it. Thanks!