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Love Doesn’t Mean Being a Hero or Being Saved

By Marlena Tillhon in Blog, love & relationships

Most of us grow up believing that one day a handsome prince or beautiful princess will come our way and lead us into a life of “happily ever after.” No one knows what’s going to happen, but we’re certain it will be magical. We spend our childhoods desperate to grow up so that our lives can finally start when we meet “the one.”

The one who will make us happy. The one who will take all our cares away. The one who will love us, and only us, forever and ever.

Finally, we will be wanted and desired. We will …

That’s Healing

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

How to Free Yourself from the Burden of Your Potential

By Abby Krom in Blog, letting go, meaning & passion

“Changing directions in life is not tragic. Losing passion in life is.”

We all have natural talents, and in some cases, we may have devoted years to honing our skills and turning them into a career. As we’re on the road to achieving our goal or fulfilling our potential, there may be this invisible weight that starts to bear down on us.

That’s because there is a burden of potential. The burden is that fear that we’ll never reach our full potential, and the obligation and pressure we feel when we don’t want to continue on the path we’re on.…

Stick with People Who Pull the Magic Out of You

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

What Is Not Okay

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Teach Your Kid to Stand Up to the Underdog

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Why I Now Complain Less and Appreciate More

By Reena Althaf in Blog, happiness & fun, love & relationships, mindfulness & peace

“It is not happy people who are thankful. It is thankful people who are happy.” ~Unknown

I used to be a complainer, a fault-finder, a grumbler. I would grumble a hundred times a day about mundane issues, be it the weather, the traffic, or my husband.

I complained when my husband didn’t help me around the house, and grumbled when he helped. It took me some time to realize that it was not him or his lack of housekeeping skills that made me unhappy. I was unhappy because I was turning into an ungrateful person.

I have some fond and …

Their Behavior Has More to Do With Their Internal Struggle

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

My Life Will Be My Message

By Jake Kessler in Blog, love & relationships, mindfulness & peace

“Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” ~Gautama Buddha

I have meditated for over half my life. It didn’t always look like meditation, and I didn’t always refer to it as such, but the driving need to introspectively understand my universe has been an ever-present presence,.

For a long time, there was a certain guarded nature to my practice. It was intimate for me. I didn’t have words to explain what I was doing in a way that didn’t seem crazy. …

You Don’t Owe Anyone Your Story

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

No One Deserves to Be Abused

By Tina Blacksmith in Blog, change & challenges

“Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars.” ~Kahlil Gibran

You’re stupid. You’re a loser. You’re worthless. You will never amount to anything. You’re not worthy of love. These are things I’ve told myself throughout my life.

The experiences I had throughout my childhood led me to believe I was deeply unlovable. I thought that because I had been abused and ignored, there was something seriously wrong with me.

That’s what abuse and neglect does. It seeps inside you down to the deepest level. It changes you in every way.

You begin …

As Long As You Know Your Truth and What Works for You…

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

They’ll Keep You Sane

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

You Did the Best You Could with the Knowledge You Had in That Moment

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Being Busy Made Me Feel Important, But Now I Feel at Peace

By Heather Picard in Blog, mindfulness & peace

“You should sit in meditation for twenty minutes a day, unless you are too busy, then you should sit for an hour.” ~Ancient Zen proverb

I used to think that life was about powering through things. I’d grab a latte, write my to-do list, and proudly cram as many things as possible into my day.

At work, there was staff, payroll, invoices, customers, marketing, and the occasional cleaning of an office bathroom. At home, there was parenting, dinner, cleaning, homework, bedtime, laundry, and plans for the next day. When my eyes could no longer remain open, I’d fall into a …

How to Fight Well in Your Relationship

By Mike Matthews in Blog, love & relationships

“Raise your words, not your voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder.” ~Rumi

I had one of those really intense arguments with my partner recently, and it made me realize the importance of knowing how to fight well in a relationship.

That might sound like an oxymoron, but there isn’t a relationship I know of where the couple doesn’t fall out at one point or another. Fights can make or break a relationship. That’s why it’s important you know how to fight well—because the success of any relationship isn’t based on how well you manage the good times …

Why Some Things Trigger You Emotionally and Others Don’t

By Paula M. Jones in Blog, change & challenges

“If you’re hysterical, it’s historical.” ~Anonymous

I had been having problems with my email. I dreaded calling technical support, since my experience in the past involved sitting for a long time on hold and listening to someone reading from a script instead of thinking creatively about my problem. However, since I could not fix the problem myself and I felt I had no other options, I called my Internet service provider’s technical support line.

True to form, after thirty minutes on the phone we had barely moved past the point where I had repeated my name and account number to …

Make It a Habit to Do Nice Things

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Why I’m at Peace with My Weight Gain

By Ginelle Testa in Blog, healthy habits, letting go

“Resistance keeps you stuck. Surrender immediately opens you to the greater intelligence that is vaster than the human mind, and it can then express itself through you. So through surrender often you find circumstances changing.” ~Eckhart Tolle

I took a deep breath, feeling the recent change in my belly. I pinched at my belly rolls. They were familiar, I’d had them before, but recently I had gone through a period of over a year where I was in a smaller body. Now I was gaining weight again.

I refuse to step on the scale, so I don’t actually know …