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How to Speak to Someone About an Unspeakable Loss

By Linda Carroll in Blog, change & challenges, love & relationships

“It’s not about saying the right things. It’s about doing the right things.” ~Unknown

Years ago, my family and I moved to a bucolic little town in New Zealand, where we were immediately swept up into a group of ex-pats and locals. We felt deeply connected to this community by the time I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy in the local hospital.

When our son was three months old, a doctor heard a heart murmur. Twenty-four hours later, he died.

In the days and weeks that followed, I wandered in my own fog of grief as I went …

Spend Your Life with People Who Make You Laugh and Feel Loved

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

The Path to Serenity

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

10 Powerful Tips for Building a Deep, Lasting Love

By Joel Almeida in Blog, love & relationships

“We are a work in progress with a lifetime contract.” ~Phyllis Koss

The priest at our wedding advised us, “It’s not enough to say, ‘I want to marry you’ just today. You’ve got to be able to say that every day.”

Problems and challenges in life can be like the wind, which blows unpredictably. You can’t control the wind, but you can learn to set your sails and to make repairs.

We’ve now been married for thirty years. Life, with all its ups and downs, has taught us a few lessons about building a lasting romance.

Here are ten tips …

When Thinking About Life, Remember This

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

You Can’t Control Everything; Relax and Have Faith

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

A Flower Does Not Compete with the Flower Next to It

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

3 Things We Can All Do to Create Stronger, Happier Relationships

By Jacky Exton in Blog, love & relationships

“Love is the absence of judgment.” ~Dalai Lama

I used to be one of those moms.

Let me explain.

I was a single mom for literally my daughter’s entire childhood. That’s okay—I was a control freak, so it really suited me. I got to make all the decisions. Perfect!

And it was… for me. Not so much for my daughter, but then in those days I was only focused on getting through the day and paying the bills.

We coped. I made the rules, set the boundaries, and expected her to tow the line.

Which she mostly did, …

Our Job Is Not to Toughen Our Children Up

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Whatever You’re Feeling, It Will Eventually Pass

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Why We Need to Stop Judging Our Feelings

By Jacqueline Ann in Blog, change & challenges, mindfulness & peace

“Your emotions are meant to fluctuate, just like your blood pressure is meant to fluctuate. It’s a system that’s supposed to move back and forth, between happy and unhappy. That’s how the system guides you through the world.” ~Daniel Gilbert

As a highly sensitive person I experience emotions very deeply, though it’s not usually obvious to others that I’m having such strong internal reactions.

For those not familiar with this trait, high sensitivity is not a defect or a personality flaw; it simply means that you experience sensory and emotional input more strongly than non-sensitive people.

Of course, this …

You Are Not Responsible for Anyone Else’s Emotions

By Jill Dahl in Blog, love & relationships

“Rather than being your thoughts and emotions, be the awareness behind them.” ~Eckhart Tolle

“I don’t believe you,” I jutted out my chin like a petulant toddler. Collapsing back into the tufted leather loveseat, I conceded, “I want to believe you, but I can’t.”

My therapist had just explained to me that I am not responsible for regulating other people’s emotions. My mind couldn’t process this truth.

There were too many decades of owning the moods of those around me.

In my younger years, if a parent was stressed, I felt it was up to me to calm them down. …

The Only Kind of Beauty That Endures

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

You Don’t Have to Be Perfect

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

There Are No Wrong Turns

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

A Lot of the Problems in the World Would Disappear If…

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Stop Chasing Happiness: 17 Alternative Ways to Live Your Best Possible Life

By Benjamin Fishel in Blog, happiness & fun

“If only we’d stop trying to be happy we’d have a pretty good time.” ~Edith Wharton

I have a question for you.

What would you be willing to sacrifice to be happy?

Would you be happy to let go of Netflix? Alcohol? Pizza?

Would you be willing to take up a monastic life?

Every single day of the year we’re being sold happiness. It doesn’t matter whether it’s in the form of a pill or a book or a holiday, the underlying idea is the same: What we have to sell you will make you happy.

The problem with …

5 Breathing Techniques to Melt Your Stress Away

By Ben Knights in Blog, change & challenges, letting go, mindfulness & peace

“Feelings come and go like clouds in the sky. Conscious breathing is my anchor.” ~Thich Nhat Hanh

Breathing techniques are now such an important part of my daily routine. I couldn’t think of starting a day without doing my breathing exercises.

I usually combine these with my morning meditation, which, through sheer perseverance, I have made into a habit and have been doing for the last few years.

Almost everywhere you look, you can find stress—at work, at home, on the road. It’s hard to avoid it and even harder to not get sucked in.

I used to let …

The Mevii App: Support for Anxiety and Moderate Depression

By Lori Deschene in Blog, change & challenges, happiness & fun, healthy habits, mindfulness & peace

As someone who’s struggled with depression and anxiety, who runs a website that recommends tools and practices for peace and happiness, I was excited to learn about the Mevii app a couple months ago.

I’m even more excited to offer 500 readers a chance to try the app for free. But first…

What Is Mevii?

Mevii can help you manage your emotions, build coping skills, reduce stress, and feel better day-to-day, using strategies rooted in cognitive behavioral therapy.

At the heart of cognitive behavioral therapy is the idea that your thoughts and actions affect your feelings—whether it’s a fleeting emotion …