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8 Signs You’re Carrying Deep Shame and How to Start to Heal

“If you put shame in a petri dish, it needs three ingredients to grow exponentially: secrecy, silence, and judgment. If you put the same amount of shame in the petri dish and douse it with empathy, it can’t survive.” ~Brené Brown

Did you know that one of the biggest causes of suffering is unacknowledged shame? It makes us believe that there’s something wrong with us and we’re not good enough.

When we have deep shame inside, instead of being true to ourselves, we “dress to impress” so others will like us, which eventually makes us tired, depressed, and anxious because …

When Life Feels Too Big to Handle

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

We Don’t Buy Things with Money

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Your Body Is Not a Coffin for Pain to Be Buried In

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

When You’re Terrified of Conflict: Why True Intimacy Means Speaking Up

By Zachary Goodson in Blog, love & relationships

“Conflict avoidance is not the hallmark of a good relationship. On the contrary, it is a symptom of serious problems and of poor communication.” ~Harriet B. Braiker

I walk on eggshells in my relationship. I have for the past ten years.

I try to design everything out of my mouth to lead to the least amount of friction between my wife and me. And you know what? It’s hurting our relationship.

You see, I’m afraid of confrontation. For me, confrontation leads to tension and tension can lead to stress and angst.

When I was a kid, tension, stress, and angst …

To Make a Relationship Last

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

The Happiest People

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

The One Powerful Question That Could Completely Change Your Life

By Angharad Davies in Blog, meaning & passion

“Nothing shapes our journey through life so much as the questions we ask.” ~Greg Levoy

“My Way” by Frank Sinatra has been a bit of a soundtrack to my life. When it comes to my career path, I have opted more often than not for the alternative routes—studying and working abroad, setting up social projects, and being my own boss. This is something my friends still laugh at today, since my sole goal after graduation was to move back to my hometown, get a job, and never leave!

However, it turns out that it wasn’t a soundtrack that I was …

Keep Going

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Find People Who Can Handle Your Darkest Truths

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

How to Give Someone the Gift of Hope and Joy with Just a Few Words

By Cori Skall in Blog, love & relationships

“You will never forget a person who came to you with a torch in the dark.” ~M. Rose

You never know the impact you might have on someone at any given moment.

It may be entirely unknown to you.

While people often look “fine” on the surface and out in public, many aren’t.

In fact, there are some who spend most of their time sitting curled up in a ball, waiting for the darkness they feel to close in on them, to swallow them whole.

A simple look, smile, text, or “hello” in the grocery line could be the …

This Is for Everyone Who Tries

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

Two Guided Resources to Help You Live a Fulfilled, Empowered Life

By Lori Deschene in Blog

For many of us, setting goals is easy. Bringing our visions to life is a lot more challenging. And since we inevitably encounter obstacles and self-doubt when we try to do anything new, it can be hard to stay focused, motivated, and confident in our potential and our dreams.

I remember back in my twenties, before I started Tiny Buddha, I set and abandoned goals countless times because I wasn’t clear on what would be meaningful for me personally. I just knew I felt behind in life and pressured to succeed, which made it hard to choose and stick to …

You Have Zero Control Over How People Perceive You

By Lori Deschene in Fun & Inspiring

How I Freed Myself from Anger by Owning it Instead of Blaming Others

By Silvia Turoňová in Blog, letting go

“The opposite of anger is not calmness. It’s empathy.” ~Mehmet Oz

In December last year, I went to India to study yoga and meditation. About a week into my training, I noticed I was becoming increasingly angry.

I thought that coming to this peaceful and supportive place would be all about gentle healing while perfecting my yoga practice. Instead, I was furious, very negative, and frustrated with everything.

Eventually, I talked to my teachers and shared what I was going through since I was becoming worried. They explained that since the training was intense and we were doing lots of …