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Topic: Breaking Down – So Lonely
I tried posting this under āTough Timesā, but couldnāt access that forum for some reason…
Anyway, today was about the hardest day emotionally in months. Iām recovering from a breakup (in August), a move back to my hometown and a new life all together. Iāve been practicing meditation and being present with what I encounter, which is mostly an incredible loneliness and boredom. I have only one friend in town and thereās no social venues to meet others. I work consistently to weed out the ego, self-hate and live mostly with gratitude and cultivating self-love.
Today I broke down in sadness and emotion, probably because of the holidays and learning that my ex went back to his hometown for Thanksgiving. First I was sad because I spend so many Thanksgivings with him and his family or mine. I started crying and couldnāt stop. So I went to the beach and really tried all my lessons that I had practiced. Accepting what is, sending out love, loving the present, being with my feelings, but thereās no stopping it. I feel so incredibly alone and sad. Iām drowning in it. To make matters worse, I live with my parents again, so I canāt be outwardly expressing these feelings. I think it would be easier if I were on my own and able to just express them.
Anyway, I know exactly what this situation is about and that I donāt need to do anything or try to change it. Itās just so overwhelmingly hard to deal with the loneliness and sadness that comes from not having friends or a social circle.
My gut is just killing me from these emotions. Itās unlike me to be so down and out. I donāt know if Iām sinking into depression.
My dear companions on this journey,
My name is Vlad, 27 years old, born and raised near Bucharest, Romania. Iāve moved to Austria since almost three months, in Tashi Rabten Monastery, one of the first Buddhist Centers established in Europe.
I have been given the rare opportunity to study here, for at least the next years to come. Iāve started learning Tibetan language, and I attend regular classes with other novice young students, as well as with monks of different nationalities.
!I raise money to cover the necessary costs for my first years of studying here. The study program includes various aspects of Tibetan Buddhism, like Philosophy, Psychology, Meditation, Logic, Ethics, Right Conduct, Right View, and so on.!
Itās a very exciting day! My fundraising campaign itās āliveā now and you can find it on this link: http://igg.me/at/way-to-happiness
I decided to study Dharma in order to become a better person and to be of benefit in society. The way to happiness is in the service of the happiness of others.
I am very happy that I have the chance to share with you this feeling.Feel free to to spread the word with your friends. The more social media presence we create, the more chances are to get featured on indiegogo.com main homepage. Indie GoGo chooses various campaigns to promote on their home page and share on their social media sites.
http://igg.me/at/way-to-happiness ( Click -> Like -> Share )
If you have any question, feel free to contact me! Updates soon š
Thank you sincerely for your help, for the time you have taken to support this campaign!With gratitude and love,
Vlad